I don't know whether she's the source - maybe?

You can follow her Delicious Inception tag. It should have more than you'll ever need.

I have some Eames meta in a file (not related to gender, because that is something that I, perhaps irrationally, almost never think about with regards to other people's gender OR my own), but the only thing I've really written was some Arthur meta back in September. Should really get around to answering the comments.